Public Relationship [part 1]

First of all, do you believe in the quote "we fight for what we care?". Before that, what do you care of? What are the things that are really important in your life? Will it be your family? Your pet? Your studies? Or even yourself? What is the thing that makes you always think about it. Some said their special one. huh?

Actually, many of us do not know what we care for. Frankly to be said, "we care for nothing, but we fight for everything". That was what my friend told me, and he was right. 

I always told to myself, be honest. At least to yourself. 

Before i actually go deep into how to have a good public relationship, let me ask you. 

When you first entered your school of college, have you ever felt or thought that you would someday be the school's head of prefect or the club president? Of course you are. Well, i believe so. 

You might say one of your senior speaking in front of other schoolmates and have a high post in school, not to mention other students were listening and were paying attention to every single word he said. 

  Or maybe, you see one of your new schoolmates gets along well with others, not to mention he/she always get the credit from teachers and being praised by the seniors. Of course, this distracts you. You want to be popular as well. You want people to vote for you as the leader. 

However, you will not succeed if you do not have a good 'PR' or in a simple word, a good reputation from others. 

Let me tell you about one of my friend. He is someone...who does not care of what others think about him and be only befriend with those who can accept him. In fact, when a lot of people actually gave him a piece of advice, including me, he will ignore all of us. "I am who I am" That is what he always said.

In reality, we are the one who have to change ourselves in order to adapt ourselves in the new surrounding, or to mix with new people. 

"The best thing to give to your enemy is forgiveness,

to an opponent, tolerance, 

to a friend, your heart, 

to your child, a good example, 

to a father, deference, 

to your mother, conduct that will make her proud of you,

to yourself, respect,

to all men, charity"

Just note this in your mind. Everyone is different. That means, we have to treat everyone differently in the way they want it. 

And that's how you will gain others' respects. 

First,

Make sure you know about people around you, and their personalities. By that you can manipulate them. Oh wait, that is how you can properly act upon them in the best way according to their personalities. Yeah, that's the right way to say it. Maybe you wonder how the hell to know about other's personality? Well, it needs hunches. 

Find out what triggers their anger, and avoid it. Ask others about he/she before you actually meet the person. If you start a conversation about things that he/she like, you might get a better perception by that person towards you. Make sure you know when to take your steps. Learn and observe in what condition and find the best moment to approach the person. To be short, don't let people know about your bad side. That's how you can gain respect.

I'll continue in the next part. ^^" sorry.